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From the bottom of my heart, thank you for this video. It helped save my life. I had thoughts of ending my life. It's been 9 months since my breakup with my ex of 8 years and engaged. I have no job, didn't finish high school (trying to now), can't drive, no friends and living at home with my parents and students. I feel like a failure and a loser. But this helped me realize we are not alone and everyone is on a different timeline. It's been hard but praying and hoping that I will make it and have a better life.

Most honest content I have heard so far. Thank you.

Black queen,look at her glo,she got everybody looking at her like-😮

Thank you for this video , u said you should enjoy the journey, but it's hard when your friends gotten married, and you stay alone, just sleep and go to a low job , im 36 now , i don't have clear bath

Am 26 and i have lost my job, still staying at my parents house. I lack a degree. Honestly am desperate am sad and i really need a solution

Great video, I needed to see this. I’m starting over at 28 after losing almost everything.

I've learned not to give up, no matter the setbacks. Turning 28 this year and 29 the next, I am embracing my journey as a late millennial. Discovering spirituality and the teachings of great authors like Joseph Murphy, Catherine Ponder, and Florence Schinn has given me hope. Their books have made me believe that age is just a number, and I can achieve anything. Despite losing my job and starting anew, I refuse to succumb to pressure. As a highly driven individual, I obtained my associate's degree at 26 and embraced a fulfilling career. I've experienced challenges, but I've learned not to rush and pressure myself. I encourage other millennials to believe in themselves and take their time to pursue their dreams.

If someone stares at you in Italy is not for racism :)

You are an extremely beautiful woman. May God find you peace.

Girl we love your content... you ok? <3 Thank you for sharing yourself so openly... you don't need to post on a schedule for the internet to love you!

No husband no kids is actually amazing 😂

The reason why women are confronted with strong societal expectations is to continue our future generations/cultures/legacies. I love my life, relationships, and career so I want my future kids to enjoy it as much as I have. Like you said, kids aren’t for everyone. But I would reword this that every person isn’t fit to be a parent.

I'm 30 living with my parents, have a job but with a small wage. I'm heavily discouraged many times for feeling behind, cause I do pretty good at school and college among my peers, this makes me ashamed more with myself. Not pushing for marriage, but my situation in career, my dreams, and financially-wise makes me feel down.

I disagree with what you said at 5:00. You should always assume the best of others, why would you want someone to be unhappy lol!! Rather you should be focused on yourself. Don’t even concern yourself with others !!!

How do u make friends if you are introvert .. I m planning to start learning Italian

Im just gonna say thank you.. god bless 😊

I’m 29 and I’ll be 30 in December and I feel this exact same way! I cried on my birthday because I was grieving the fact that I did not reach certain milestones before this age. I don’t have a degree, I’m not married nor do I have kids yet. My family has been asking when will I find love and have children, and I can’t tell them when because I literally don’t know. Then I see all of my peers (classmates) living what looks like their best life on social media. They’re traveling, they have their own families and they good careers. And yet I’m still single, living on housing assistance for an apartment. I feel completely left behind. I finally started therapy this year and it definitely helped but I would still love to see certain things come to pass in my life. I would love to travel and find my person. It’s a lot to mentally take in and cope with daily but seeing transparent vids like these let’s me know I’m not alone and things will change when it’s the right time.

Rev 7:9,10

Thank you❤

You gotta work on your MINDSET girl. Life isn’t over at 30. You’re wiser, mature, no baggage, you can start a new career, I did at 30 1/2. Would you chase a milestone if you were gonna get paid?

Amazing video! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾💕

Ma que bella feminina

Im 31, im not living the life i had imagined when i was a teenager. My thoughts were to go to college, get a career, meet someone, get married, have 1 kid and by my 30s be done so i could focus on my career and child. That way when i reached 40s i would be set and accomplished. Enjoy my life with my family and travel. But no, im 31, no education beyond high school. I found out I couldn't go because im not a us citizen, i couldnt get private scholarships. That really ruined me in high school, i felt so behind back then and it hasnt changed now. A total failure. Thirteen years ago, I was granted permission to work and drive. I mostly worked throughout my 20s, no motivation whosoever because of my lack of self trust, no courage and self worth. Being 31 now, living with my mom and sharing a room together and a bed. To split the bills due to today's economy and to help her out as my youngest 2 siblings live with us as well. I have no boyfriend, no kids, no career. I have a job that is decent and easy but not fulfilling. None of my jobs have been, although i am grateful I had them. Im about to finish paying of my car which is the only thing i see myself accomplishing. I alwaya think about going back to school now since there's online classes but because of my depression, lack of self worth, motivation and concentration I dont think i be able to do it. Its not an excuse, but it feels like the hole i fell into is so deep i dont know how to figure out a way out. Its like being a perfect puppet and not having control of anything. I alwaya thought i was alone on this but lately there have been so many videos of other people on the same road. I feel a bit less alone and perhaps a bit of hope that i can set the road for myself without pressuring myself to do it before i hit 40. I didnt mean to write all of these but i do feel a bit relieved? In a sense. Anyways, good luck to us all.

Thanks so much for the encouragement.

Beautifully expressed!

thank you! its ok to mourn the life you thought you would have had but also to enjoy what you DID do. At the end of the day, we'll walk out of our 20s with a better head on our shoulders. Some things we can control and other things happens in the timing you may not want but what is best for you ultimately <3

This video is just what i needed, like why does life have to be on such a rigid template when the things we experience in life definitely do not follow a strict “plan”. I just feel like people that haven’t been through feeling behind project their insecurity through judging people that “look behind” because them imagining themselves like that makes them fearful of being in that situation.loved your video thankyou ❤

Hello! I am Rose, i just started leaning italian and i am 15 years old, is that too late?

Im 26 and struggle with severe anxiety and depression, no kids, been single for awhile, only been in one relationship, never married, still live with both my parents, however I am persuing a career in the medical field... I feel like a teenager sometimes, it makes me so depressed when I see ppl I went to school with wayy ahead of me, and in relationships. I must be doing something wrong 😭

What part of Italy do you live in?

Haven’t even finished the video and i love it! It’s so rare to find these real videos! Everybody isn’t in a situation where they are starting families and taking vacations all the time. Some of us, even though we strive for greater and want it…we haven’t gotten there yet and it gets hard with each passing year. I feel you 🫶🏾

I have an Italian friend who has a mixed mother (Portuguese white and black African ) so she has some black in her But she is born and raised in Rome Her Italian boyfriend ‘ s mother ruined her relationship to her son when they were to get married Italians are racists and classists, they accept foreigners only if they are at a distance from them (never really close friends and never married to the family) and also they can’t do better then them in life. Non Italians people for them have to be poorer, lonelier etc they have to fit a box below them. That’s when they will treat you with sympathy and warmth. But the moment somebody they perceive as a foreigner below them upgrades, upgrades marrying or with social status, they reveal their racist inner thoughts. It’s also impossible to be 100% accepted as equals

I am in my late mid 20s . I haven't started college, trapped at home with a toxic relationship with my mom, witnessed seperation etween my parents (step and mother but my bio father was never in my life) and suffered abuse from my parents all of my life, gave up my life to help take care and accommodate my mother even though she is completely able-bodied, just financially stunted. I became a sonsband and my entire 20s have been ruined. I never got into college, a legal drivable completely fixed car, no job but working underneath the table under my mom and her business, trapped and feel enslaved. I never moved out and even if I could, I can't motivate myself too unless I leave to stay with a family member who is in a different state. I want to live my life as if I am young 20 again. I want to feel like I am young 20 except in a different way such as free and joyful. I want to go to college and get mt degree, go into interns, get a career, travel, and make friends. I have no friends and haven't had one since highschool. I want friends and someone to love me for me. I am a good person with a good heart. I want to live my life in prosperity, freedom, and joy for the first time in my life.

You are so pretty

Thank you for sharing.

When everything else fails, we always seek solace with God. When its good, God is forgotten. That is why Being and Nothingness are both sides of the same coin. Sad to see a young woman in her early thirties suffering from the disease of existentialism. Get a life woman. You will be at peace with yourself once you understand that your existence can only at best be defined teleologically.

I’m not so far off from being 30 and I now understand the pressure of having it all by 30. I don’t have it all, I’m not married, no kid and I recently lost my job. But what gets me by is the fact that I’ve learnt that your 20s are the years of building your CHARACTER, FINDING YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE, FINDING GOD and FINDING LOVE IN ALL YOU DO. It’s sad that we live in a fast paced society, buying houses in your 20s seems to be the in thing now, people attach a sense of accomplishment to material things, yes it’s good to build wealth in your 20s but the truth is Money and Wealth are always around us, your life can change in 6 months - 1 year when you live in your PURPOSE. You can always make the money you want but it takes years to build CHARACTER and find your PURPOSE. Your 20s should be used to build your CHARACTER & find your PURPOSE, also FINDING GOD.

OMG girllll you are so beautiful

I just turned 30 in January when I was 26 I thought I would already have the life Imagined but I'm just going with the flow , and making my own rules, living on Mt own terms,

I'm 2:04 in and I'm crying bc I feel the exact same.

I’m a 34 years old Brazilian woman, and I feel exactly this way. But I’m trying to be in peace, and this video helped me a lot, you were inspired by God. Thank you, thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart.

So tale an Italian class for 2 years in Italy, got it. 😂

lol im an australian mum (my son is 27) and my 3 girls say he's a mommas boy-------its true ALLLLLLLL mums love their boys guilty as charged

12:04 People are probably staring because she's so beautiful

At my age, I'm a bit impatient. 😊

I soooo relate to your words !!!!!!

I know italian pretty well and wish I could erase the language from my brain, people are too racist in Italy 😂

I am so disappointed in myself right now I'm way behind time that's just how i feel . I am 27 btw

I went to Italy I know why Italian are racist toward black people it’s because most of the black people living there are most likely scammers, you can fact check this in people vlog to Italy a black man approached people putting weird objects in there pocket or hands and ask them for money to pay for it

You are lovely. Wish you the best girl!